The Holistic Counseling Center

Online Same-Sex Couples Therapy - Strengthen Your Relationship

Build a Stronger, Healthier Relationship with Expert LGBTQ+ Counseling

Specialized Online Therapy for Same-Sex Couples - Backed by Research & Proven Techniques

Does Any of This Sound Familiar?

✅ Struggling with communication, trust, or intimacy in your relationship?

✅ Facing conflicts that seem to go in circles without resolution?

✅ Dealing with life transitions, stress, or external pressures that impact your partnership?

✅ Searching for an LGBTQ+ affirming therapist who truly understands same-sex relationship dynamics?

✅ Wanting to reconnect, heal, and build a future together with expert support?

About Our Practice

At the Gay Couples Institute, we understand the unique challenges same-sex couples face. Our therapy approach is grounded in research and tailored specifically for LGBTQ+ relationships.

What We Can Help You With:

  • Improving Communication – Learn effective ways to express your needs, resolve conflicts, and truly understand each other.

  • Rebuilding Trust & Intimacy – Whether due to past hurts, betrayal, or growing apart, we help couples rebuild closeness.

  • Navigating Life Transitions – Major changes like moving in together, marriage, or parenting can bring stress—our therapy supports you through these adjustments.

  • Managing External Pressures – Family dynamics, societal expectations, or workplace stress can impact your relationship. We provide tools to navigate these challenges together.

  • Strengthening Emotional Connection – Build a solid foundation of love, respect, and appreciation with evidence-based strategies.

Our structured, proven approach helps couples not only work through challenges but thrive in their relationship.

The Holistic Counseling Center

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Find out if our practice is right for you!

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Therapy Services

We're certified in, and have published our own research on the Gottman Method, one of the most effective approaches for couples therapy. This scientifically-backed method helps partners:

  • Understand and break negative communication patterns

  • Strengthen emotional connection and intimacy

  • Resolve conflicts in a way that strengthens the relationship

  • Create shared goals and a lasting partnership

Our sessions are 100% online, allowing you and your partner to access expert LGBTQ+ therapy from the comfort of your home, no matter where you are.

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FAQs

How does couples therapy work at Gay Couples Institute?

In 2007, we opened our doors in San Francisco. To date, we have seen over 4200 couples and individual clients. We practice the Gottman Method, a research-backed approach designed specifically for couples. Our sessions help you improve communication, resolve conflicts, and build a stronger connection. Ready to get started? Let’s talk.

Is online therapy effective for couples?

Yes! In 2016, we were meeting clients on Zoom, and before long, we transitioned entirely online—including our courses. In 2017, we published the first outcome evidence of our method in a peer-reviewed scientific journal. We’re the only couples counseling center—gay or straight—to ever do this. Our online therapy sessions provide the same level of support and effectiveness as in-person sessions. Plus, you can attend from anywhere, making it convenient and accessible.

Do both partners need to attend every session?

Couples therapy is most effective when both partners are on board, at least with learning more about it. We require that both partners be present on the initial meeting to get everyone's questions answered. We suggest that you speak to your partner prior to reaching out.

Do you accept insurance?

No, we operate on a self-pay basis and are not in-network for any insurance. However, we can provide you with a superbill, which you can submit to your insurance provider for potential reimbursement. On the initial consultation, we're happy to help you understand how to submit out-of-network claims.

How do we get started?

Simply book a free consultation to meet with Alapaki Yee, the cofounder and Clinical Director. We’ll discuss your relationship goals and how therapy can help you achieve them.

Ready to Start Your Journey?

Ready to Strengthen Your Relationship? Contact us today at (510) 313-1511 to schedule your free 45-minute consultation.

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Gay Couples Institute

100% Online Therapy for Same-Sex Couples in California

Helping LGBTQ+ Couples Strengthen Their Relationships

Schedule Your Free 45-Minute Consultation

The Holistic Counseling Center